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[100:06.220 --> 100:14.340] Middle school. No, no, no, no, no. I Had a run before I got married pre-k Probably like 3 Probably 3 that I would
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[100:14.340 --> 100:22.540] see it walk by And I don't know they don't even know I don't know bitch you up. You look crazy. You live where? You live
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[100:22.540 --> 100:30.880] where mark? Y'all gonna think I'm bullshit once I see a white fridge is over It's something I'm a shit that I'm
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[100:30.880 --> 100:39.360] embarrassed about but I don't think I would lie on it. I don't think I would lie. I would just hope that nobody found out. But if somebody- What was embarrassing about those experiences?
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[100:42.460 --> 100:54.740] My decision making, my judgment at a time. Well that's what Joe said, I'm looking for what I'm looking for more. I look at you for leadership All
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[100:54.740 --> 101:04.531] right, there's at least it's all fuzzy That
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[101:04.531 --> 101:13.020] cold fish either? No actually. Oh yeah that cult fish. Oh yeah some of that cult fish. I
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[101:13.020 --> 101:21.300] believe you. That's it's reckless and irresponsible but yeah I mean it's back to that whole Shaka Khan thing like it's
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[101:21.300 --> 101:29.340] what say you? None I took all the ears off me I never miss I
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[101:29.340 --> 101:37.700] still talk to all of them that I regret? No no oh I would deny yeah how about it? No you didn't
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[101:38.700 --> 101:47.200] I ain't never and not counting the ones you already denied of me. Like the other ones. Oh, f***ing n****. The other ones. The
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[101:47.200 --> 101:56.320] other ones. The number times 3, they're like college. Hey, keep this on you, my brother. I've answered already. No, no, no, no. Did not, probably
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[101:56.320 --> 102:04.580] 10. Damn. 15. Now, what about these 10 would make you do diet? Now we're getting somewhere riveting content.
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[102:04.580 --> 102:14.240] So I think it's a good issue. Gotta go with the percentage, not a number. That's true. No, I'm not saying, I think that, I think that, Oh
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[102:14.240 --> 102:24.140] man, yo, this nigga be trying. Go ahead, you gotta talk nigga. No, I think some of where they are today What would play a part in it? Like
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[102:24.140 --> 102:32.140] yeah, like they moved Could any of the 10 beat again no not even mark could any
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[102:32.140 --> 102:40.260] of the 4 beat again? No! Alright, alright, y'all got it. Some of them can't get a handshake out of me. This
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[102:40.740 --> 102:48.900] is great. This is fun. How much freeze? A hard 3 for sure. What made them? They were not
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[102:48.900 --> 102:58.020] my what I what I they went up to your standard. Yeah Stroy by probably we talk Williams boy We
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[102:58.020 --> 103:13.210] talk like Oh, it's like 200 300 pounds. Oh, you have 1 of them now 1
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[103:22.340 --> 103:30.540] of my space lonely nights. What the fuck was talking right at 3.42 in the morning? Why we get like that, man? We're thorn dogs, yo. Bottom
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[103:30.540 --> 103:38.720] of the knife, you start swinging that shit. You got your box. That shit look good. Shit is dirty. It's like everything will wash your brain. You just thirsty. Like you say whatever it was. It ain't about to come off.
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[103:38.720 --> 104:00.840] That's why you got to get that shit out. No, no, no. You can't stand that shit, man. You got to get down. You be mad. Bottom of the night Hell drive home I
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[104:00.840 --> 104:08.900] save myself for marriage Is your partner aware of any of the mid on this list? They don't exist. If
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[104:08.920 --> 104:17.840] I'm denying it, why do you think the partner would know? Yeah, you know how long ago that was. Yeah, it was a long time ago. Yeah, but sometimes your girl knows you've slept
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[104:17.840 --> 104:26.060] some mid. And I have a question to tell you. Before y'all met, at any point, sometimes your girl's just aware of the mid you slept and just will
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[104:26.280 --> 104:34.540] Have to have a little kiki with you. I got a better question to add the joke of the incident Like do y'all discuss ex partners with your current partner?
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[104:34.540 --> 104:42.660] Yeah, a little bit. Yeah. Really? My girl will ask me like, yo, you hit that. Yeah, so much access to your partner? What's even weirder sometimes? My girl will ask. Similar but different
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[104:42.660 --> 104:51.060] is like when you see someone, you're like, oh, I think I did that. That's horrible. That's what I'm saying. That's horrible. I think everybody in here had that.
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[104:51.100 --> 104:59.840] Yeah. You know, you being Dunkin' Donuts or something, they be hugging you. You be like. Before they take your order. Hey yo! Hey yo! She
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[104:59.840 --> 105:08.160] gave me like $12 last time. These were free! She was
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[105:08.600 --> 105:16.740] like, I don't know how y'all do it. I don't discuss. That's hilarious. Y'all been horny all apart. No, no. You ran into
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[105:16.740 --> 105:26.480] something, and you be like. You discuss ex with Shia Dabele wardrobe? Ex? I mean, I discuss everything with her. Oh for real? Yeah. We'll
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[105:26.480 --> 105:34.480] be outside, my girl will be like, you hear that? I'm like... Thoughts like shit. My wife will ask me if the girls
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[105:34.480 --> 105:42.600] acting funny style. You know like if they come over and like speak and do some weird shit or do the voice. You know just weird shit. My wife actually said that. I don't
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[105:42.600 --> 105:50.800] know what that is. They don't gotta be funny style. They don't gotta be nothing. My girl gonna be like. She know your type, she know you. She know your body. We
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[105:50.800 --> 105:59.000] were in bed watching the show last night. I must have been sleepy. Because she was in the bed on her phone and I guess, you know,
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[105:59.000 --> 106:08.100] we're sitting up next to each other and I guess her good good good good good good friend was posting her
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[106:08.100 --> 106:16.800] son on Instagram who's like a bodybuilder and he was in like the MC Hammer pumps in the bump. Oh shit. Trolls? Draws.
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[106:18.140 --> 106:26.260] Okay. And all I heard was, oh that's such a such, that's my godson, That's such a such a such a Bro little
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[106:26.640 --> 106:35.220] DM and then she went to the kitchen to get some water Sad in that bit long and hard like It's
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[106:35.220 --> 106:43.220] crazy Said so I had to think Because I'm not 1 to even broach this topic or have
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[106:43.220 --> 106:51.440] this conversation with nobody. But I was so stuck on, because I got a thing, I guess that's a trigger for me. Your childhood friend,
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[106:51.460 --> 106:59.740] your godson, your... Oh, we went to middle school together. It's like my brother. Yo, I tell you, and they say
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[107:00.160 --> 107:08.180] that so casually. I thought that she was in bed and said, Oh, my God, son, let me
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[107:08.180 --> 107:16.480] so she came back to the room. I said, Hey, quick question. Tell me, don't tell me, because
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[107:16.480 --> 107:24.980] I gotta have to talk. I said, hey, when you say like, hey, that's my God son. Oh, hey, my
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[107:24.980 --> 107:33.220] childhood. Hey, my mom knows his son. I said, what does that mean? She said, oh, that means,
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[107:33.220 --> 107:43.360] he like a kid to me, like we grew up together. I said, is he 16? She
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[107:43.360 --> 107:51.420] said, no, no, 29. Oh, 31. Oh, fuck that. Oh, yeah, nah.
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[107:51.580 --> 107:59.660] I said, so you think that you could say it's dead and just willy nilly DM some n**** in his
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[107:59.660 --> 108:07.860] drawers? I'm doing this shit. I thought she DM'd the girl that posted him. Yeah, me too. You told the story, you f***ed up.
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[108:07.860 --> 108:15.880] She DM'd the godson. I know she DM'd Roscoe. She did DM the girl, but I missed that part. I thought she DM'd
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[108:15.880 --> 108:23.920] the dude. Yeah, so we had to have a talk. And boy, when I opened that can of worms, I
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[108:23.940 --> 108:32.020] lost. Why would you ever say a joke? If we had to have a talk about DMs you should send, versus DMs
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[108:32.280 --> 108:41.080] you shouldn't send, who should get them, who's not. You guys have to f*** up. Yeah, you just got to let that go. Yeah, I did You
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[108:41.080 --> 108:49.080] got to stand like a real Virgo Chatting Is it your position that because I've done wrong in this relationship that I shouldn't
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[108:49.080 --> 109:07.140] be able to express when I feel away Anyway,
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[109:07.140 --> 109:15.420] we talk about all of it. We talk about all of it. Part of that because you've been on my phone a bunch, but she knows some of the mids. So she just knows some
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[109:15.420 --> 109:23.620] of it was mid. Some of it just shouldn't have happened. And she knows. Man, some of that I'm taking to the grave. Like, yeah. When they
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[109:23.620 --> 109:32.700] find out it's mid. But you said it's only a 3. Yeah, sometimes I'm taking it to the grave. When they find out it's mid, is that more comforting to them? No,
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[109:32.700 --> 109:41.140] they get a little victory lap. No. Yeah, I would think so. Or does it make them more worried like you anything no? I'm not safe. Yes the opposite I find it as the opposite effect
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[109:41.640 --> 109:49.780] because they thought they do was thorough oh They thought that they do they don't know about them lights I you It's like she go on the phone and see
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[109:49.780 --> 109:57.940] you swinging and missing just in the DM, just ain't nobody even giving you no rhythm. It's like not only are you not supposed to be doing this, but you look like a herb
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[109:58.320 --> 110:06.540] doing it. And Look what you're doing it to you and bads and me. This ain't even mine. They get into all this extra. It's like you find us the
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[110:06.540 --> 110:14.840] opposite that they get to the victory lap like sometimes I'm better. Yeah. When it's your turn is gonna hurt. If you did it with some mid,
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[110:15.240 --> 110:23.500] If you did it with some mid, when she's up the bat, it's not gonna be made. Boy, it's gonna be bad for you. You mean
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[110:24.000 --> 110:32.060] flip the scenario. Yeah, because now that she's seeing what you're doing, it ain't gonna take much to get you going. She sent a DM to Pleasure P on 1 of these
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[110:32.060 --> 110:40.160] and get you out of pocket. Would y'all feel better if your girl was a red and mid dude as opposed to like better than
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[110:40.160 --> 110:50.000] us or when I love her? What if you want your girl phone and Sway Lee was in there just in his bag like Adam 22 said? Yo
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[110:50.000 --> 111:00.560] don't never say that's the You are absolutely disgusting and you should be arrested. What if Swae Lee was in there just swaying? You
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[111:00.560 --> 111:13.660] wouldn't feel the way like if your girl was in there giving sway Lee rhythm. Yeah. Yeah. How you let's move off this topic What
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[111:13.660 --> 111:21.960] else is important what else is unimportant you see Mike Will made it being talking about the Sway Lee, French Montana situation?
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[111:22.560 --> 111:30.640] Yes. He was tight about that. Still is tight about that. No 1 made no money behind it, essentially, except for the Sony, the record label. Why
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[111:30.640 --> 111:38.680] not? Because French just kind of did, from his, from Mike Will's standpoint, just kind of took the record, jacked it. I'm just putting this out. I put
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[111:38.680 --> 111:46.720] a verse on it Didn't ask nobody. Oh Just put it in the streets, but they shot a video. I don't I'm sure after the fact
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[111:46.720 --> 111:54.760] once this because it started to catch traction immediately to hit records smash record So now it's now it's let's give so he just heard that
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[111:54.760 --> 112:03.660] he took the sway Lee record and just do that verse on it according to according like well insinuated by Mike will I Make It
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[112:03.660 --> 112:11.680] sounded like it was a rich. It was a sway Lee record. Yeah, that's why it's only like a bar. French bar. And you
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[112:11.680 --> 112:19.860] come to the studio to put a verse on anything in the studio. You'll never hear your verse again. Like, that's how it should be. You don't get to come over
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[112:19.860 --> 112:27.860] here, lay vocals on a track that I got pulled up, and then when you leave, I send you a version of what you did to my
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[112:27.860 --> 112:36.480] beat or to my song. Hell, no, you're crazy. You would've never heard that verse again. You'd've never heard that verse. Gotta be careful playing people. And
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[112:36.500 --> 112:44.760] go to studio sessions trying to song hop Like go to your session trying to just throw a verse on something that you didn't ask for
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[112:44.760 --> 112:53.020] at all Just cuz they in the just cuz they in the building. Yeah Let me jump on that you give me give me some give me some record you think that that happened with the first break
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[112:53.020 --> 113:01.040] I think is a well my styles is my man. I was gonna say yeah do you say that
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[113:01.040 --> 113:09.740] it's the funny you say that I just found out the other day that Gucci is on the end of MC Hammer I
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[113:09.740 --> 113:18.400] never got to the Gucci man verse and MC Am I but he's on there. Yeah Through my phone Don't
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[113:18.400 --> 113:26.600] you have some remix of someone? I didn't know what he was doing. That's just not a song I would have put him on. But sometimes you don't let shit get to the third
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[113:26.600 --> 113:35.520] verse to know what's going on. Styles was another 1. It was a night in Sin city where they let the last verse rock I was like styles he is on this song why
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[113:35.520 --> 113:43.540] I was so happy for him I never knew that shot styles man yeah go ahead god damn it cold some songs niggas just look like they walk
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[113:43.540 --> 113:51.760] in the studio say let me get on that hey you can't something I think Roscoe said that's how no hands happen with a while a yeah Something something
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[113:51.760 --> 114:01.440] just in a session jamming come over. Oh, that's hard. Let me hop on that Everything
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[114:01.440 --> 114:09.900] in the studio is kind of pause worthy if you really stop and think about it. Yeah Give it to me 1 more time Now
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[114:09.900 --> 114:18.200] go harder it's a lot He'll go I think you can go harder than that. A little tighter.
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[114:18.880 --> 114:27.040] I ain't gonna lie, anytime somebody told me that, when I went back in there and went harder, yeah, that's what it needed. Sometimes
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[114:27.040 --> 114:35.100] as a rapper, that's all you need, just some instruction. Great verse, but you don't really sound, Come on, let's get it, come on. You can lay that, whoa, another take. The right
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[114:35.100 --> 114:43.140] person gotta tell you that though. Yeah, did you ever have a- Anybody just can't say that. Nah, you know what else is funny as a rapper? Sometimes nobody gotta say nothing. You go in there, lay a verse,
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[114:43.180 --> 114:51.500] you looking through the square to see the room and ain't nobody bopping. Ain't nobody bopping. They not, damn
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[114:51.500 --> 114:59.700] that's demoralizing. Look at the phone and some. Yeah, niggas just going to the store while you laying that heat. So you
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[114:59.700 --> 115:07.780] told you to do your verse over before? I'm sure that's happened to me before. Without you getting offended at me. I don't think I've, nah, I wasn't getting offended
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[115:07.780 --> 115:15.900] at that. Some people do get offended at that. I didn't get offended at it. My intro to the game was making them change their verses, man. So
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[115:15.900 --> 115:23.900] I mean, I didn't get offended. Even though I did have a rule like I Wanted to put my best foot forward all the time so that I didn't have to
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[115:23.920 --> 115:31.920] deal with that guy redo a verse And if you get me 1 my best foot is for then you got me. I ain't gonna do that I think that suckers. Are you talking about like redoing after someone
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[115:31.920 --> 115:40.200] else? Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah There was nothing wrong with your verse and you just got ripped No, I'm saying I'm saying I went home when he told like Alicia Keys go We record
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[115:40.200 --> 115:48.320] that all like when we say Shaka Khan told Mary to somebody Oh, I actually tell you yo Joe like you was on a wreck with somebody or Joe that shit don't sound too good If you was
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[115:48.320 --> 115:56.520] in the store the house niggas on my yo dog, I think you could do that better You're listening anything worse has to say yeah If hove give you instruction if somebody's
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[115:56.520 --> 116:04.760] giving you instruction that you know, you respect it also You can you can tell if someone gives you instruction you look go back and let's do it in there,
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[116:04.760 --> 116:12.820] right? I'm gonna go fix it Yes, true. It's be too arrogant. Yeah, you tell them that not what you're talking about. I'm not
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[116:12.820 --> 116:27.900] shit fire That's the problem Them 3 that you said you would take to the grave they got phones still They
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[116:27.900 --> 116:35.900] are That's cool, I know I know 1 that you keep denying, so you know, we can do
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[116:35.900 --> 116:43.990] an unveiling. If I deny it, it didn't happen. No, it happened. You take it. Y'all know about the ones that I'm gonna deny. I'm not saying y'all don't know, but it didn't happen.
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[116:43.990 --> 116:52.020] It didn't happen. Get yourself in a sticky situation. That's the 1 that
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[116:52.020 --> 117:03.080] come and do wonders to your body You've
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[117:03.080 --> 117:11.980] been bad like They know all the spots. They know all the spots. You be in bed like, ooh, if nobody see this bitch, yo, the things she come over here and do to me. The back of my knee? Ooh.
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[117:11.980 --> 117:19.980] 412 in the morning? Oh, man. Oh, man. Oh, my god. This is the leader. Go unlock. Hard workers, man.
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[117:19.980 --> 117:28.190] This is the leader. This is the leader. That's how you know niggas was open. All work pays off. Niggas used to lead that door unlock. What? Lead that door right unlock. Go back in the dark. This could come in. It's coming in the dark though.
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[117:28.190 --> 117:36.220] See, you can see it. They coming in. You can imagine. What? Woo. Yo, keep the light on. Let me come in there. Where? Moonlight. Ah,
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[117:36.220 --> 117:44.240] good old days. Oh, man. Good old days. We had some horny old men. Yeah, we had. Oh man. Horny old men in here. Oh, go ahead. No, I was asking you earlier when
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[117:44.240 --> 117:52.300] we was talking about the topic, I was saying that people getting soft. Y'all fucking the nighttime now? No, actually. You just into my whole shit to say that? My last thing, cause we was just talking about
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[117:52.300 --> 118:00.680] fucking, I didn't want to have to circle back to fucking I prefer not to you. So are we in nighttime? Yeah How often is nighttime? Most
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[118:00.680 --> 118:09.440] of the time when you have young children you when you can write Right,
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[118:09.440 --> 118:17.460] let's get it. I keep forgetting that your kids could live with you I'd always back to that. All right, you were saying flip You further I
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[118:17.460 --> 118:26.120] was actually David this 1. Yo speaking on earlier I saw you comment on the member the coach it was a coach yelling it in the player's face, right? Yes.
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[118:26.120 --> 118:34.420] And I started to write a tweet and say that... Write the tweet right now. No, You need a rough coach sometimes. I miss that. I feel like everybody's gotten soft.
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[118:34.460 --> 118:42.600] I mean a lot of those coaches, I mean if you go back and say that how we were raised or environmental, you know, our environment led us to... I tried
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[118:42.600 --> 118:50.740] to coach you rough. You offered me to a fight, canceled a hit show, stepped to me outside, barked on me, screamed on me. He just wants you to re-record the verse.
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[118:50.740 --> 118:58.860] No, no, no. And sometimes we go through that and we shouldn't have to accept that, but I feel like you need rough coaches. Yeah. So the coach,
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[118:58.860 --> 119:07.280] I was just trying to find her name, Brenda Friese, there's a clip of her doing some real intense coaching to her star,
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[119:07.360 --> 119:15.480] player Oluwche Okananwa. She was in her face. There was a little bit, she was very close to her, the kind of close where you could feel the spit coming
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[119:15.480 --> 119:23.600] out their mouth. And there were people who were like outraged by it. I think some of it was the optics of her being a white coach yelling at a black player. I think some of it was just like, you
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[119:23.600 --> 119:31.960] don't yell at players like that, you know, et cetera. To me, and what I was, I was like, I think people expected me to be outraged.
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[119:32.200 --> 119:40.200] Yeah, I read what she was saying too. She was like, I believe in you. She was like, I believe in you. This is your story. You know, like, take this moment on. Like, I believe in you. She
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[119:40.200 --> 119:48.260] wasn't playing well. She wasn't doing what she wanted to. The lip readers got right to it and told us exactly what she was saying. And once you hear that, what is the story? It's harder to be
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[119:48.260 --> 119:56.540] pissed. She said, yo, this is your story. I'm not in it. Right. It's your time. I believe in you, but everything y'all just said, you got to believe in yourself. Now's your moment. Go take
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[119:56.540 --> 120:04.620] it to him. She could have been in her face saying, yo, you playing like you could do better than this. Get the fuck out there. What are you doing? What's your problem? What the **** is your problem? You playing
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[120:04.620 --> 120:13.720] like ****. That's what coaches do. Yo, some coaches motivate their players in other ways. The
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[120:13.720 --> 120:31.980] good coaches do what y'all are saying, but the bad coaches, when they do the same move, is normally is coming right before I
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[120:31.980 --> 120:40.260] think there are limits even if you love me but this coach wasn't nowhere near the limit. Yeah, not even close. Not even close. It's not even close to me.
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[120:40.260 --> 120:48.260] It's screaming at me, I believe in you, is the thank you. Right. I think it was more of the optic of the black kid. Because I'm like, what the fuck are we doing? I
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[120:48.260 --> 120:56.280] mean, when John Thompson did it to AI, I was like, what's going on? I think part of his generation, I do think this generation is getting- Soft. Yeah. And I think, I
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[120:56.280 --> 121:04.400] don't want to just say, well, because they did it back in the day and it worked. That's true. That we can't change. Again, I'm all for change, I'm all for more gentle approaches
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[121:04.400 --> 121:12.920] and more humane approaches to things. I just don't think we need it on this thing. I just don't think there's another way to get a player in
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[121:12.920 --> 121:21.660] a sport this competitive motivated sometimes other than to match their intensity. But what do you say to the people that say that the
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[121:21.660 --> 121:29.680] reason why we accept that is because of what happened in our homes? What do you say to those people? Like, we have to go back and change that, all that stuff? I'm not saying
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[121:29.680 --> 121:38.100] it's stupid, but. I think it depends what we're talking about again If I don't there's a lot of arguments for why we shouldn't do football right in terms of it being a gladiator sport
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[121:38.560 --> 121:46.620] But if we doing it, yeah, I don't know how to get someone to literally run through a wall Other than to get them hype
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[121:46.620 --> 121:55.060] enough to run through a wall. You said when you went to Zaire and I'm game You never seen Zaire be like that. Yeah Yo dog, these are grown
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[121:55.660 --> 122:03.740] 260 200 in some cases 350 pound men you gonna be like yo bubble I think you could do better next time you could next time just bounce off the
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[122:03.740 --> 122:11.920] block break his neck Yeah, like what the fuck are we talking about? I think in competitive sports. Yo, your emotions are high You're passionate about what you're doing We start yelling up here
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[122:11.920 --> 122:20.180] about you talking about the NCAA tournament and motherfuckers wanting to win and be successful and you want to see kids that you believe in do their best
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[122:20.200 --> 122:28.380] sometimes yo Go harder to the hole now. Don't worry I know you better than that you might not get the most out of that player until
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[122:28.380 --> 122:36.560] you Part of my French put belt the ass right you get what I'm saying And so I just think that you assess your players, if you're the coach and you've been
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[122:36.560 --> 122:44.600] with them for 3, 4 years, you know what's gonna get the best out of them. And I don't have no problem with that. And it's a relationship. Indeed. By the time we're in
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[122:44.600 --> 122:52.940] the fourth quarter with 10 seconds left, and you're like, what the fuck are you doing? Yes. You know what I mean? Set a screen. I spent a year, 234 with you.
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[122:53.240 --> 123:01.240] You've hugged me. You've talked to me. You've taught me. I've cried. We've had such a relationship that by the time we get to that moment I trust you.
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[123:01.240 --> 123:09.380] I care about you. I love you and I can depend on you for that shit. Hold that screen 2 seconds longer, you bounced out the screen 2 seconds, I don't think nothing's
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[123:09.380 --> 123:17.560] wrong with that. Yeah, now if I just met you, that's different. Yeah, totally different. And you still coach with intensity, but there's different levels. So I don't need, what
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[123:17.560 --> 123:25.600] she said based on the lip readers made it to me unassailable. But even if it were more intense and less warm and fuzzy
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[123:25.600 --> 123:33.720] in the wording, I'm still not against it in the fourth quarter, and you heard the girl afterwards, She said I like being coached. Yeah No, yeah, I think we make that's gonna get a
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[123:33.720 --> 123:41.760] drafted I think I mean she might have been getting drafted anyway, cuz I'm not familiar with her. Yeah Attitude coachable what you said after that? Yeah, that's what people
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[123:41.760 --> 123:49.820] want to hear. That's like that's how you handle that speaking speaking of coaching speaking of good coaching. Well kinda Tommy Lee, how would you guys
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[123:49.820 --> 123:58.100] know How would you guys like to be given bad news from your representation? Whose representation? What you mean, like your
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[123:58.100 --> 124:06.480] agent or your manager? Whoever that is, whoever your funnel is that you work with, how would you like to receive bad news from them?
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[124:06.540 --> 124:14.720] Phone call, and direct. Very direct, don't talk around the bush, straight up. How much of a filter would you like them to put on news
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[124:14.720 --> 124:24.060] that's bad to you? Like when your person is reaching out talking to the deal makers or whoever they're talking to, what if they get like some brutally
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[124:24.260 --> 124:32.620] honest truths back about you? See I think that's the job of the manager or the middleman to know that they could
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[124:36.860 --> 124:44.920] soften the blow. You know what I'm saying? Yo dog, the deal ain't go through. They had some reservations, whatever, whatever. They don't have to be like, yo, they say you a.
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[124:45.860 --> 124:53.940] They don't have to do that. Yeah. You don't have to do that? Say the things that I need to know to get better or to move forward. Don't say things that are just going to hurt
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[124:53.940 --> 125:02.340] my feelings. I agree. When I first started hosting, I tried out for this audition for this, to host this show about feral
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[125:02.340 --> 125:10.380] kids. You know, like kids that are like animals. They live in the wild, it's called wild child. Okay. They thought I'd be good
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[125:10.380 --> 125:18.500] for it. You was gonna be in the wild no matter what, boy. Yo, nigga, I needed this job. This is my first big opportunity. And I was terrible, I know what I was doing. And
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[125:18.500 --> 125:26.640] I didn't know how to reprompt her. I didn't know how to kind of navigate. I was good with the interviews and all that but there was some technical stuff I just didn't know how to do because I'd never done it before.
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[125:26.640 --> 125:34.740] Right. And my agent called me and said they like you but they didn't think you were ready yet. That's all I needed to know to know what
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[125:34.740 --> 125:42.860] I needed to do. I'm sure what they said is why'd you send us this guy he can't even do the prompter he can't even he didn't say all that they didn't say you sucked on the prompter or you know you didn't transition well
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[125:42.860 --> 125:50.920] or you know whatever like I need to know that because that would have just made me self-conscious and worried But saying I wasn't ready yet told me, all right, I need to prep. Work harder, yeah. And I knew exactly what I needed
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[125:50.920 --> 125:59.020] to work on. It's the perfect motivation. Well, see, I would like that information, the prompt to reading, like, I would want to get that information, maybe not at that exact
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[125:59.020 --> 126:07.340] time. Yeah. But if I were in that situation, I would want my manager to be like, oh by the way, we should also work on Any
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[126:07.340 --> 126:15.520] kind of did that and also it was kind of I knew You know what? Oh, this is look like so I knew it. I knew it went well. I people aren't that self-aware That's very
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[126:15.520 --> 126:23.560] that's very true. What do you mean? That's what you have to know your client. Yeah, you have to know your client. Yeah, you have to know your client. I mean I agree with him like to have the
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[126:23.560 --> 126:31.620] filler to So you won't react or like me you tell nigga like me that I'm mad at the whole company burn that whole But you need
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[126:31.620 --> 126:39.720] somebody to tell you like to try to soften the blow based on the person that's receiving information Let's say mark didn't Would you like for
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[126:39.720 --> 126:47.800] it? Would you like for your rep? I'm sorry Would you like for your representation to tell you if a company was racist? Yes. Yeah. Yeah, I would you
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[126:47.800 --> 126:56.280] ain't even gotta go into specifics. You could just be like yo like I'm gonna put my Ian voice on your buddy They weren't really the you know They
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[126:56.280 --> 127:04.340] they they weren't I would want to know you don't gotta go into the comments that races toward you. I'm saying yes You only got to go into the comments. You
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[127:04.340 --> 127:12.340] could say, yo, they aren't a good fit for us. They was on some racial, they are biased and it's not a fit for our brain. Even if they
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[127:12.340 --> 127:20.340] go with it later on, you'll find out they're racist. And when you find out that they're racist or they're racist towards you. Meaning like now them being racist towards you mean that
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[127:20.340 --> 127:28.440] you won't get the job because sometimes they could be racist towards you but your representation can still work out something and you get through the door. Or you be profitable and they'll take a
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[127:28.440 --> 127:36.500] gamble even though they don't really want to f*** with you but these n****s bring you dollars. So in this situation what would it be? Would it be like you know their races and they don't want to put you or their races
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[127:36.500 --> 127:44.620] No, they're not. I would want to know because I don't want to ever Sometimes you'll have like still positive things to say about someone who didn't bring you
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[127:44.620 --> 127:52.680] on But if I know they're on I don't want to ever be positive towards them again I might not show them publicly, but I'm not ever gonna say nothing nice about them I want to at least
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[127:52.680 --> 128:00.780] know I want would you like to be told if they're in and I'll close on this if they told If would you like to be told if they told your team that you're asking price was laughable?
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[128:02.320 --> 128:10.520] Yeah, yes, yeah probably yeah not Laughable no, I would just there's a way to say that what I mean. Let me ask no you're asking
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[128:10.520 --> 128:18.620] price. There's a way to say it. If I'm in your position, yeah, I would want to know. Right? But if, let's say me, because
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[128:18.620 --> 128:26.760] we in different levels. So let's just say I have representation and they were shopping me to somebody and our number was X and they was like, what,
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[128:26.760 --> 128:34.900] are you crazy? Better get out of here. But for you, because you are in a ownership role or you see yourself in a certain place, me
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[128:34.900 --> 128:43.320] and you, I don't view where I would be and you where you are in the same. So I think all that information should come back to you. My agent for me, I don't think that it's necessary
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[128:43.320 --> 128:51.400] for them to bring that back to me. I would always want to know that information because I may have to adjust my pricing accordingly. Right. But that's a conversation for you and your agent to have at another time without them telling you, yo, these m****s laughed
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[128:51.400 --> 128:59.740] us out the room. You know what I'm saying? Maybe. I think that. I'd want to know right away that. Laughable. Because a lot of time when they say it's laughable, they just don't want to pay
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[128:59.740 --> 129:07.860] you. It wouldn't necessarily make me feel like I was making it. I either would say I need to adjust my price or I need to hold out for my price. It might make me more steadfast, but
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[129:07.860 --> 129:16.020] I would wanna know, also I wanna know that it ain't my talent. And also like, you know what I'm saying? I might want the gig. So like, so
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[129:16.020 --> 129:24.060] you know the juicer price for it. Like maybe if I really think it's a good look or it's a good opportunity or I could see something in the future, all right, let's work on the price.
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[129:24.240 --> 129:32.620] Maybe it doesn't have to be this astronomical. Let's figure out something that's more reasonable. Potentially. Case by case basis, obviously. For sure.
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[129:33.080 --> 129:41.900] All right, what else is important? LaRussell deleted his social media got scared the Russell off the internet good yeah
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[129:42.240 --> 129:50.280] now somebody got to him some odd somebody got to him right That he respects and would listen to Yeah,
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[129:50.280 --> 129:58.300] yes, yes kept double and triple and quadruple and that if you go on that far with the double to triple down He don't respond this well like
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[129:58.300 --> 130:06.360] it only took me the last month to learn that anybody could get into someone in there, but how he responds to just wasn't working out Yeah, so take a little break
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[130:06.360 --> 130:14.380] do everybody a favor just just go ahead and get out of here Get out of it. You're done good coming from these talking points. He'll be right back Yeah,
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[130:14.380 --> 130:22.380] it'd be back like He never left, but he did the right thing. I agree. More young need to get off the internet. That part. What
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[130:22.380 --> 130:31.020] else, what else, what else? They're doing a Kevin Hart roast on Netflix May 10th. Hosted by Shane Gillis, none other than. Nice.
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[130:31.020 --> 130:39.180] Shot to Shane, that's dope. That's a good look. Yeah. Yeah, I think this is gonna be super fire. I enjoyed the Netflix roasts. I think Kevin Hart is gonna have the right people
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[130:39.180 --> 130:47.900] doing it. I expect to see the tall white girl. I like Nikki Glaser. Yeah, you know it. There's only 1 other person I would see. Dave Chappelle, Jerry Seinfeld. Yeah,
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[130:47.900 --> 130:56.800] I could live without Jerry Seinfeld. I just don't think he's funny anymore. He might not be good at roasts. Yeah, that don't seem like his shtick. He'd be good for the celeb presence. Did
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[130:56.800 --> 131:04.940] y'all see Jerry Seinfeld at 1 of those... Damn, I don't remember the award. The award...
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[131:05.420 --> 131:13.480] The Twain. Did y'all see him at the twin award? I don't think I saw If it was I forgot about it. I like Jerry. He was hilarious.
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[131:13.540 --> 131:21.600] I like introducing Kev. I just roasted in Kev I missed that 1. I need to see it. I didn't see it to answer your question I need that was the big where he was
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[131:21.600 --> 131:29.740] like, I Know Kev I'm not here for a favor He was he did a favor bit. You never heard Jerry
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[131:29.740 --> 131:37.860] Seinfeld favorite That's possible. Yes possible. I thought that was hilarious. Maybe we're triggered by it. I wanna see Jeff Ross. I'm sure
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[131:37.860 --> 131:46.140] he'd be there. Oh yeah, the roast master. To me, there's nobody. He gonna be there. He gotta be. Jeff Ross is the man TV comedian dude. No, the bald dude. No, no, bald dudes.
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[131:46.340 --> 131:54.500] The roast master. The roast master. He's at all the roasts. He's been a staple on all the Comedy Central joints. He's gonna be there. He kills everybody. To me, him and Nicky Glazer are the
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[131:54.500 --> 132:02.860] 2 that just like, That's my 2. Yeah. They could feel it. Them 2 there, we know we got a hit coming. Yeah. Yeah. That's all I care about is her
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[132:02.940 --> 132:11.480] honestly. I don't even care about the ball. Let me pull up a picture Jeff That's not the part that's in question, let me just see who this 1 he's
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[132:11.800 --> 132:19.900] hilarious I think he says some inappropriate not too long ago. That's all he do. Yeah, that was. Yeah,
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[132:19.900 --> 132:27.960] that's his whole. Jeff Ross? Yeah. Yeah. You're gonna know when you see his face. Oh yeah, the nigga look like a
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[132:27.960 --> 132:36.080] thumb. Yeah, No, he's funny. He's very funny. He's funny. He's great at a roast I don't know about what you did to Seinfeld name just to
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[132:36.080 --> 132:45.480] big up Jeff Ross, but we'll talk about that off here That was kind of crazy It's
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[132:45.480 --> 132:53.600] not personal I don't know him I just I went to see Jerry Seinfeld his last comedy too I went to see him live. Like I'm a I'm a comedy fan. So I went to see him It
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[132:53.600 --> 133:02.280] wasn't funny. I watched his special He's always been a dad joke. Yeah, he's not that funny. He's more funny with Larry
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[133:02.280 --> 133:10.320] David Larry. Yes. Yeah mommy are back in the day when could rest in peace to Caroline's I would just go to Caroline's just to see whoever
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[133:10.600 --> 133:18.940] just because Caroline's was a good date. It's a good night out. I went there for who was that David Allen Greer 1 time.
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[133:18.940 --> 133:27.120] Oh boy. He was the worst Really he was Really I didn't enjoy him Was he 1 I don't think none of nobody
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[133:27.120 --> 133:35.180] at my table enjoyed him and we had like a table of 10 seated like right next 1 the side of the stage. And it was like, I had tomatoes on me. That's
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[133:35.180 --> 133:43.940] your worst comedian laugh? At least notable. Probably. Probably.
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[133:44.340 --> 133:52.340] I mean I've had some really tense Paul Mooney sets. I was a part of too, but they weren't bad sets, but they were tense Yeah, I can like I can
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[133:52.340 --> 134:01.280] live with it. Yeah, sometimes that is uncomfortable Sometimes that is uncomfortable. What do you mean? Yeah, was it like on a racial tip or did yes? And
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[134:01.280 --> 134:10.140] you know and like let's just say hypothetically going to Carolinas just hypothetically on a random night Carolinas is gonna be white You
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[134:10.140 --> 134:18.320] know it's gonna be heavily heavily heavily Caucasian and Paul Mooney used to give Yeah,
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[134:18.320 --> 134:26.360] but sometimes like okay sometimes I would see like white people get up to leave the Paul Mooney I think that was his goal. Yes. I want to make
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[134:26.360 --> 134:34.380] y'all so uncomfortable that you get up and leave I think he was willing to bomb the set. Yeah, too for that for that moment I'm saying I'm not with that.
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[134:34.380 --> 134:42.600] I'm not I'm not with that me either Like if I'm a customer somewhere if you're a consumer, you're a patron somewhere Then there has to be
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[134:42.600 --> 134:50.700] some level of respect. I'm with you being a comedian and doing your job. But once the white people get up, like, you know what, maybe this particular comedian is not for me,
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[134:50.700 --> 134:59.060] I'll leave peacefully and quietly. That's when he used to go AWOL. That's when he used to, that was the long walk out for them.
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[134:59.060 --> 135:07.460] And the things he used to say to them, people that were just trying to leave was like, yo dog, this is not necessary right now. And
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[135:07.460 --> 135:15.760] I seen Paul Mooney, I'm sorry, I seen Paul Mooney at least 9 to 12 times in Carolines. I'm only talking about maybe
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[135:15.760 --> 135:23.940] twice where I was uncomfortable. Is there any white comedians that did it to black patrons that got up and walked away? I've had
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[135:23.940 --> 135:32.120] that before too. I told the story up here. I'm out. Michael Richards definitely. I saw the Kramer 1, but then people getting up. I remember that. That was bad.
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[135:32.240 --> 135:40.560] That was bad, and it wasn't funny either. It wasn't funny. No. I've had the experience of going to a comedy show with an extremely beautiful dark-skinned woman and the comedian on stage
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[135:40.560 --> 135:48.920] a beginner comedian says something totally out of pocket I've told that story up here. My colorist? I didn't know that. Past colorist. It was a white comedian? Yeah. Oh.
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[135:49.000 --> 135:57.040] 0. Yeah, I might get you. Yeah, yeah. Yeah, that comes with something. How did you handle that? Box. I don't know that stuff. I went to the stage. They had to pull, they had to get him off. Then
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[135:57.040 --> 136:05.200] they had to, they asked me to walk out. The owner came out, spoke to me, apologized, kicked him out, yada yada yada. It was all good. Good.
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[136:05.540 --> 136:13.680] Okay. Good for you and all of us. It was so bad, we was gonna wait after outside. Like we gonna see him for what he's saying. I'm on a date, nigga. So
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[136:13.680 --> 136:22.020] do you believe that, that night I gotta fight to show my love? So you said it because it's, so you're not against comedians roasting people in the crowd, but you're against
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[136:22.740 --> 136:30.820] the racism. Of course we're against racism, but you're not against that comedians are roasting people in the crowd. Because some people are against that. Some people feel like as a comic, you should not bother anybody
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[136:30.820 --> 136:39.000] in the crowd. I don't feel like that. I don't feel like that. But you can't be a racist fuck and just be mean and break
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[136:39.000 --> 136:47.020] set now to just spew mean s*** at an audience member. And mean is the right word to me. Teasing people, jokes, fine. Once it gets
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[136:47.020 --> 136:55.840] to the level of meanness or actual harmful s***. You get off your personal feelings. I think that s*** is wack. This ain't comedy
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[136:55.840 --> 137:03.980] no more. The person I was with, I think she got up and like there was a thing like she asked him to stop He didn't stop She got up was visibly uncomfortable shaking by some of the things being said like
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[137:03.980 --> 137:12.000] like if I don't beat you up now It's gonna look away Yeah Or if I don't tell manager the management to get you to get out of here because it's a security threat because we're gonna do Something to you when you get
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[137:12.000 --> 137:30.360] out of here then how'd you date react? I just told you I mean, I mean towards you towards you What
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[137:30.360 --> 137:38.460] are you talking about? Back city bitch, back city bitch, back city bitch, back city bitch, what do you mean? That's what we talk about. Yo, we talk
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[137:38.460 --> 137:46.520] about that. But how did you react? She decided to pop it for a nigga then look back and told me baby, you know how you react to that. Yeah, especially
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[137:46.520 --> 137:55.000] white girls get it. Yo, shut your ass up nigga. You think I would bring a white girl to a comedy show?
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[137:56.000 --> 138:04.060] Yeah. That's a good place to hide. I'm not saying you did, But that's a good place to hide. Wait now hold up. Cause no other black people gonna be there. If the comedian was being racist
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[138:04.060 --> 138:12.200] towards the white girl, that would be a different response I think. Well I told Mark she was a dark skin sister, but anyway, but, nah, I'm not, nah, a white
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[138:12.200 --> 138:20.340] girl at a comedy show? If you were going to hide it, if you were gonna go hypothetically on a date with somebody that you don't want black people to see no black people at comedy
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[138:20.360 --> 138:28.480] It depends on what comedy show you go to So the 1 I'm gonna enjoy black people gonna be there yeah, that's what I'm saying see you like black comedians
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[138:28.780 --> 138:37.100] I like certain style of comedy you know I love black comedians,
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[138:37.100 --> 138:45.180] but I rank with black quarterbacks to you? I'm not going to do that. I love black quarterbacks and black comedians. But what I'm saying is there are also a
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[138:45.180 --> 138:53.180] lot of comedians who I love who are not black. And so there's a good chance. Let me guess what that is from Sudan, right? Keep talking about it man. There's
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[138:53.180 --> 139:01.200] just a good chance that if I go to a comedy club to see my favorite comedians that night, there's a good chance that, and you go in New York comedy lines, it might be 1 black comedian, 3 white comedians. I'm okay with that. I'm okay with
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[139:01.200 --> 139:09.280] the opposite too, but I'm just saying on a lot of nights in New York in particular, you're not gonna get on a lot of comedies. I missed the comedy show I was trying to go see a couple days
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[139:09.280 --> 139:17.300] ago, man. I told y'all about the comedy show. Yeah, Shorty, man. Yeah, man, I'm sorry that happened to you. I missed the New
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[139:17.300 --> 139:25.440] York date and the New Jersey date. I'm sure she'll be in DC. Oh She's in Rhode Island in August In New York
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[139:25.440 --> 139:33.580] over the week. Oh, yeah. No, it's real funny comedians hilarious Larry, I had to work both nights. And my girl was with me.
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[139:33.580 --> 139:41.680] It's different meeting me without my girl. That don't happen to y'all. Why is that, man? I'm asking y'all. That's not the case for y'all. I was asking you
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[139:41.680 --> 139:50.100] first. I can't figure it out. That's why I'm asking my brothers. I have no idea. I don't meet people without my girl. What you mean? No, I'm asking y'all
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[139:50.100 --> 139:58.170] for real, my brother. Is it the same meeting somebody like when you're alone? Thousands. I don't meet people alone. My lady's
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[139:58.170 --> 140:06.180] always with me. Permanent plus 1. What the fuck are you talking about nigga? It's not the same. Nope. Hey, what's up, girl? Hey, oh shit, y'all my fan.
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[140:06.180 --> 140:14.280] When your girl there, how you doing? You shaking hands and shit. You gotta keep social distance. Ah, nigga. How you doing? She got COVID. She got COVID? Yeah.
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[140:14.280 --> 140:22.330] Your wife is dead. I can't even hug nobody properly. Properly. What's the proper hug? What's
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[140:22.330 --> 140:31.860] the proper hug? On the side, right? On the side, yeah. What's the proper hug? You can't hug with the snicker on, nigga. You crazy? Hips back. Yeah. Straight church. 2
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[140:31.860 --> 140:39.860] pets. Anyway, I'm gonna catch you in Rhode Island and all. Let me know how it was, the set. And I saw a couple clips of you looking crazy. What's her
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[140:39.860 --> 140:47.860] name, man? I saw the clips too, I'm gonna see the link. Her style of comedy is the kind that I think resonates with all of us up here. She's really
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[140:47.860 --> 140:55.900] funny. She's black? I don't see race. Oh, you're just a sellout. For
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[140:55.900 --> 141:03.940] all that black power you do, you show all this shit. I love comedy. Come on, man. Comedy knows no color. Who's your favorite white comic, then? Bill
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[141:03.940 --> 141:12.140] Burr. Okay. Yo, a lot of people are hitting my phone asking me if
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[141:12.140 --> 141:20.140] I have the suite for the Jay-Z joint. Because we talked about it, nigga. Niggas asked me to. Because you said you think y'all coming in my suite? Which implied you have
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[141:20.140 --> 141:28.160] a suite. But people that ain't hit me for no show I've been to, New Edition, Tank. Those were accessible.
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[141:28.620 --> 141:36.960] Fam, you seen the queue for New Edition and Tank in No offense and you see the queue for Jay-Z what no queue that's my point right that's what I'm trying to be
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[141:36.960 --> 141:45.080] right polite because this is the other shows you just need the money to get tickets here you need money and a hookup yeah yeah the queue said there is no queue no more
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[141:45.080 --> 141:53.220] for the show they just announced yeah my homegirl was ranked number 1 million and she she logged in like right at the time that you're supposed to. I clicked in at 1 0,
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[141:53.220 --> 142:01.360] what was it, 01:02 or something. I was 22, 000 and then when I went back. This is my uncle's land. He said there's no call. He still in the queue? No, the queue is closed. He got
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[142:01.360 --> 142:09.380] the seats. He got the seats, yeah. Oh, yeah, we got to tell your uncle, see if he wanna make some money. Before. Ask your uncle if he wanna make some money. Yo, I got, I kept, oh. I was gonna
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[142:09.380 --> 142:17.520] say Wale put a record out that I wanted to come in here and play, but now I can't find it anywhere, but boy is it heat. So he took it down, I tried to get the
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[142:17.520 --> 142:25.600] record, he said, it ain't finished, I'ma finish it tonight. So it was just a teaser, that's why it's not. He's not clear the sample or something. Something didn't get
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[142:25.760 --> 142:33.960] that song was done We didn't need no more while a vocals on that 1. That was that was a joint and I'm sure a lot of the comments
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[142:33.960 --> 142:42.260] told you it was a joint also last time I was in here I didn't put the proper respect on my sister Alex Isley who dropped
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[142:42.260 --> 142:51.720] a project I'm gonna just give right to this James Fauntleroy when the city sleeps because it's like that and
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[142:51.720 --> 142:59.740] again I meant to do this last part. When the City Sleeps, Alex Isley, the name of the project and the name of this song. When the
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[142:59.740 --> 143:07.740] City Sleeps, featuring James Fauntleroy, Entire project is a vibe shout out to our good friend of the show Alex Isley. That sounds great. Alman's fire, the
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[143:07.740 --> 143:15.900] Alman's heat. Let's see, let's see. I thought you were playing asleep, I thought you brought it back. No, no, no, but speaking of bringing things
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[143:15.900 --> 143:23.940] back, I got a part of the show here from somebody named Ishmans. I'm reading this in
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[143:23.940 --> 143:32.360] real time for the first time. So this person says, "'Storytime, I'll make it as short as possible. Bear
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[143:32.360 --> 143:40.380] with me. My wife and I have 4 kids total. 2 she had before me and twins we had together. My first
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[143:40.380 --> 143:48.420] borns. A year after our kids, we were pregnant again. 1 week we was beefing. Serious. I'm
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[143:48.420 --> 143:56.580] assuming to her, but it wasn't as serious to me. I viewed it as petty, but not worth beefing about. I said it was serious to her because I gave
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[143:56.580 --> 144:05.160] her distance while I was working on that. And that led to her texting me saying, she's going to get an abortion. I
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[144:05.160 --> 144:13.440] responded saying, no, you are not. Well, issues, man, you don't have a choice in that 1. Sorry, buddy. I will not be paying
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[144:13.440 --> 144:21.560] to kill my child. She hit me with my body, my choice. I stood firm on my stance. Come to find out she lied to her dad to get the
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[144:21.560 --> 144:29.700] money to do it and had it done. Till this day I hold resentment for that. That's not the kicker. Now, 3 years later,
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[144:30.040 --> 144:38.200] She's saying she's getting her tubes tied because she's turning 37 and has 4 kids. I said, I'm not okay with that. She
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[144:38.200 --> 144:46.560] says I'm being selfish and that I should be okay with the twins. I said, you're saying that because you had 2 kids before
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[144:46.560 --> 144:54.760] me, 1 of which is 18 now. I feel like she's abusing this my body, my choice mentality. I told her
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[144:54.760 --> 145:03.060] if she does this like she did the abortion, then I will be leaving this relationship for good because I haven't all the way forgiven you for that. She
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[145:03.060 --> 145:11.500] claims she has an appointment in 2 weeks. I think it's a bluff, but if real, would I be wrong to leave this relationship?
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[145:12.640 --> 145:20.940] Signed issues, man. Hopefully y'all were able to keep up with that. That's heavy. It's heavy. That's heavy. That's complicated. It is. I
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[145:20.940 --> 145:29.140] disagree with him saying she's abusing my body my choice because it is her body her choice and she's 37.
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[145:29.240 --> 145:37.520] I mean yeah with medicines and stuff today women are having healthy pregnancies much later, but she might not wanna go through that anymore.
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[145:38.420 --> 145:46.500] It's a higher risk. So she might say, I'm done. I think she has the right to do that. I mean, he's saying, is he wrong for leaving a relationship? Now you gotta do
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[145:46.500 --> 145:54.680] what's best for you. If you feel, I think that you shouldn't leave the relationship. I think that a relationship takes 2 and she may need your support. She still will need your support,
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[145:54.680 --> 146:02.800] but if you have to leave in order to keep your sanity because you draw a line, then You gotta do what you gotta do to keep
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[146:02.800 --> 146:10.860] peace in the home. Ish, you smiling, what's up Ish? Nah, it's a real complicated. You think he should leave? Nah, I just think it's a complicated thing. I think that- That's your man, my
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[146:10.860 --> 146:18.860] fault. I think that, nah, I don't know that nigga. I think that- I love you though. I think that Shorty's definitely right. When she
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[146:18.860 --> 146:27.040] says her body, her choice, I think that if she wants to tie her tubes, she can do so. I also think that in real relationships,
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[146:27.460 --> 146:35.460] I think it's a conversation to be had. He may want more kids, she may not want more kids. I think that those
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[146:35.460 --> 146:43.480] are conversations to be had and she does reserve the right to change her mind. You get what I'm saying? I just think that it's a real slippery slope.
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[146:43.480 --> 146:52.960] I think if he wants more kids and he leaves the relationship, now your twins suffer. You know what I'm saying? Like it's just, it's really no definitive
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[146:53.100 --> 147:01.500] answer. And it's not a right or wrong thing, it's more of an emotional thing on both of their behalves. It's a real tough, tough, tough time, throw some prayers to him.
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[147:01.500 --> 147:11.680] I agree, I mean people have a right to change their minds. People have a right to change their minds. I think though when you enter a relationship, it
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[147:11.680 --> 147:19.860] depends on what commitments you made. You know, like if, What if he did that? What if she said, like, I want kids. I'm
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[147:19.860 --> 147:27.960] committed to having 3 kids, or 4 more kids, and that was the condition of them getting married. And he go get snipped. And he go get snipped, or just says, you know what, I don't want no
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[147:27.960 --> 147:36.000] more kids. I changed my mind. Again, he has a right to do it, But I do think what got us into that relationship should at least be part of the
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[147:36.000 --> 147:44.480] conversation. I still agree her body, her choice, she should be able to do whatever she wants with her body. And I agree with Flip. Yeah,
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[147:44.480 --> 147:53.140] he has a right to leave. I don't think he's wrong to leave. I think if you want a thing and that person doesn't want that thing anymore or ever, then
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[147:53.140 --> 148:01.220] people are right to leave. The same way she has a right to change her mind, he has a right to change his mind about the commitment. I think that's okay. Yeah, I agree. And also, she could, just
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[148:01.220 --> 148:09.220] to throw a little bit of a bell, She could have just been secretly taking birth control. I appreciate that she was honest with him. Instead of getting a tube style, she could have done it on the low and not told him and had him
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[148:09.220 --> 148:17.360] thinking they were trying to have a kid all this time. And so you ran out of field. So I appreciate her transparency and honesty about it. I don't know enough about what they agreed to going
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[148:17.360 --> 148:25.440] in to know how big of a pivot this is. But yeah, like everybody's saying, it's messy. Yeah, I would just be careful. I guess I agree with what everyone said.
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[148:25.440 --> 148:33.500] I would just be careful with throwing away potentially a good relationship and a good person because of this. Unless it's really something that you really
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[148:33.500 --> 148:41.720] feel that you're struggling Yeah, exactly because I how good can a person be if she's going against of they're going against you what you truly
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[148:41.720 --> 148:49.840] believe in I mean it could be good But I'll never be happy in this situation because they'll never leave me why would always regret being in this situation. I would always think, what
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[148:49.840 --> 148:57.840] if, unless we go together and get the proper help. I think that- He said he's already resentful based on the first portion that she had. Yeah. And that ain't gonna
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[148:57.840 --> 149:05.860] get right unless they have another kid. It sounds like that's about the only thing that's gonna make him feel better about it. I think again, my thing is if he leaves, that's definitely a choice on him. For
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[149:05.860 --> 149:13.900] sure. But your twins are gonna suffer. And I'm sure the other 2 kids that have grown to know him are gonna suffer as well, so it's really a bad thing. And again, I would just caution if everything else
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[149:13.900 --> 149:23.460] is good in the relationship. Yeah, I don't know if I would give that up personally. Break baby.
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[149:23.460 --> 149:32.780] Break baby you scream. I mean that is an option. That is an option. Well,
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[149:32.780 --> 149:41.120] hope we were able to help, nigga. When you have a break, be on a break. All right, hopefully y'all have enjoyed this broadcast as much as we enjoyed
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[149:41.120 --> 149:49.520] delivering it to you. Until next time, keep us in your prayers. Lord knows we need to be there. Till next time, we bid you adieu, farewell, adios,
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[149:49.660 --> 149:57.660] arriba, derci, hasta la vista, au revoir. So long, goodbye, or a simple head nod will suffice remember life is
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[149:57.660 --> 150:05.660] a series of moments and moments past So let's make this 1 last as if it's all we have. Last but
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[150:05.660 --> 150:14.040] certainly not least, the baddies are insecure, the stagnant women wanna travel, and the closed-minded women want you to teach them things. Grab you a Tylenol,
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[150:14.620 --> 150:23.040] you might need it. Again, I urge you, if you are traveling out there, if you are vacaying or visiting family or
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[150:23.040 --> 150:32.080] just moving and shaking, those airports are twisted. It is not a game. You might want to give yourself 4
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[150:32.080 --> 150:40.360] to 5 hours, honestly. They say in 5 to get to the airport now. Yeah, 5 hours. If you open up the LaGuardia app,
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[150:40.360 --> 150:49.560] the EWR app, some of these airports are telling you what the wait time is. Yeah, I got lucky the other day Lucky
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[150:49.560 --> 150:57.700] for shit in eternity boy Next weekend, I don't know it might be a dub for that.
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[150:57.700 --> 151:06.400] Yeah, I'm traveling next week, too I don't know about that no more. But I want to say happy birthday to my son, Nico. I mean, to 15 days. Hey, Nico. Nico. Shout
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[151:06.400 --> 151:14.460] out to Nico. Happy birthday. Not me. I'm a f***ing moth, but you know, you should be a kid. Watch your mouth, nigga. Happy birthday to Nico. Like, y'all, I'm supposed
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[151:14.460 --> 151:22.800] to be traveling next weekend, but You going to South Carolina? Not supposed to. But... Going with you now. It's just looking like this. Nah, I was out, dog I flew through the airport
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[151:22.960 --> 151:31.400] he's on some lucky commercial oh sure any some TSA going on
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[151:32.260 --> 151:40.520] I don't know that I'm out of loop Yo, hey them yo just made
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[151:40.520 --> 151:48.620] them why They're trying to break up the Union and all that politics as usual man basically damn
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[151:49.120 --> 151:59.760] till next time yall hold it down no joe bun enough
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[151:59.760 --> 152:08.820] of that you've never heard of joe bun jbp jbp why are we to be without the J-B-P? We'll
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[152:08.820 --> 152:15.760] fold that up right now! BAH-HA! No Joe Bunny! You